"I don't believe that there is one and only one person for you. There are thousands, actually." FRANCOIS.
I agree with that, you can fall in love with anybody, if you spend enough time with that person. I believe that in a sense there is one and only person for you. The key is finding the person that loves you more than what another person can love you, and in return you give the same devoted love, that cannot happen with just anybody.
I don't believe in love at first sight. I'm 19, and I'm sure I'm not experienced as other people are, but here is my story of my first and only love. I met her on the net, it was on Terra chat, a spanish chat for North America. I remember I was in one of my friend's channel from Texas, and I remember that we didn't have that much of conversation, I just asked her where she was from , she lives 3 hours from where I live. After that first conversation, I didn't talk to her till a month. Then for the most part 3 times a month. I was just friendly, I didn't have anything else in mind, since at that time I thought love or relationships through the net were stupid and made no sense. It started changing when I liked her personality and her points of views. That's when I asked her for her phone number. She hesitated several times, but I insisted, and finally she gave it to me. I called her , and the first time I had a good time with her, we talked for at least 4 hours. I started to grow feelings for her, and at the same time I was in a battle with myself thinking this was not right and that it wasn't possible. I'm a very shy guy, which figures why I never had a girlfriend in my life. But one day I just thought to myself , if I ask her out, I don't lose anything, if she says No, at least I tried. So I grew enough courage to ask her out, and she said yes. We had a good relationship over the phone and e-mails, we were like that for 6 months, I couln't go and see her because I didn't have a car. But last month I got to meet her. I was so nervous to go, but when I got there, I was relieved that she was nervous too, so that helped me out. The ice was broken after a few minutes since we knew each other for 6 months already, and we started talking just like we did on the phone. It was my first date ever, and I had so much fun, if it wasn't for her my life would not have no inspiration, she loves me in the same way I lover her, and sometimes I think more. I just hope the relationship lasts forever, and if it doesn't , at least I know someone can love me.
I know very few people are going to read this, hehehe, seems too long and boring, but it's nice to post here, just like someone said earlier, that they're more open with strangers. Very true.